Wet dreams ? What's normal?

(1) Dear Alice, Are wet dreams in a sexually active 23 year old male unusual? ?Voice HAS cracked (2) Dear Alice, I only had about three to four "wet dreams" in my entire life and now I'm 20 years old. I wonder if it is normal, or it's because I masturbate often that I don't have these kinds of dreams. Is there a way of having one like that again? ? A Dreamer (3) Dear Alice, I have a normal sex life with my wife (once or twice a week), but I have been having a problem lately. I have had about four wet dreams last year. I don't know why but I feel really bad about this. Is there something wrong with me? How can I stop this??? Feeling Helpless